In Florida, California, Arizona legislation was passed to ban the marriage of homosexuals. In the case of Florida, the amendment is for the ban of any institution that is not the marriage between a man and a woman. We already have a "Marriage Protection Provision" in our Florida Constitution; which for legal purposes defines Marriage as the "union between one man and one woman" and bars the recognition of same-sex marriages from other states. The goal of Amendment 2, is to "ban gay marriage and civil unions" in our state.
And as you might imagine, this will have great repercussions. Gays and Lesbians cannot enjoy marriage tax cuts (talk about taxation without representation), spousal benefits, health care privileges, the benefits of a "will", divorce protection, adoption services and the list goes on. But wait a minute, neither can heterosexuals who do not want to get married. Good-bye common law marriage!
Why wouldn't heterosexuals marry? Many seniors do not get married, because they don't want to lose social security benefits, or just because they don't want to. In any case, why would we as citizens take away the rights of individuals? Why do we let the popular vote decide the faith of millions. Historically, the populus always takes away rights, and the courts give them back. Are you not convinced yet? Well, as this is a Health Care Ethics Blog, I will expand on Health and Marriage.
When a person loses his or her ability to make sound health-care decisions, the decision power goes to the next of kin. The "chain of command" is Spouse, Children, Parents, Relative, Friend. If no one can be contacted, the state assigns a Health Care Surrogate. Without Civil Unions, a partner that has spent many years and knows the person better than family, is demoted to "Friend", the last resort before the state intervenes. What if the family does not agree with the lifestyle of the person unable to make the decision? (this is the case with many homosexual couples) the family can deny access to hospital visits, hospice visits and even funeral visits to friends and yes, even the domestic-partner. Can you imagine not being able to see your loved one in the hospital (or for that case, one last time)?
What about Health Care Benefits? Well, Orlando Major Buddy Dyer, just announced plans to offer domestic-partner benefits for gay city employees. Will this be reverted?
In short, should we take away benefits from people simply because of their lifestyle? If a person wants to marry, we should let them. If they, they should not. But to give special privileges to people who get married, and then put limitations on whom they can marry, well that's just sad.
Lastly, here is a very sarcastic list that is being passed around the internet. Hope you enjoy.
Florida vs. Same Sex Marriage
What does Amendment 2 mean?
Six Reasons to Vote NO on Amendment 2
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12 Reasons why Homosexual Marriage Will Ruin Society
1. Homosexuality is not natural, much like eyeglasses, polyester, and birth control are not natural.
2. Heterosexual marriages are valid because they produce children. Infertile couples and old people cannot get legally married because the world needs more children.
3. Obviously gay parents will raise gay children because straight parents only raise straight children.
4. Straight marriage will be less meaningful, since Britney Spears's 55-hour just-for-fun marriage was meaningful.
5. Heterosexual marriage has been around for a long time, and it hasn't changed at all: women are property, Blacks can't marry Whites, and divorce is illegal.
6. Gay marriage should be decided by the people, not the courts, because the majority-elected legislatures, not courts, have historically protected the rights of minorities.
7. Gay marriage is not supported by religion. In a theocracy like ours, the values of one religion are always imposed on the entire country. That's why we only have one religion in America.
8. Gay marriage will encourage people to be gay, in the same way that hanging around tall people makes you tall.
9. Legalizing gay marriage will open the door to all kinds of crazy behavior. People may even wish to marry their pets because a dog has legal standing and can sign a marriage license.
10. Children can never succeed without both male and female role models at home. That's why single parents are forbidden to raise children.
11. Gay marriage will change the foundation of society. Heterosexual marriage has been around for a long time, and we could never adapt to new social norms because we haven't adapted to cars or longer lifespans.
12. Civil unions, providing most of the same benefits as marriage with a different name are better, because a "separate but equal" institution is always constitutional. Separate schools for African-Americans worked just as well as separate marriages will for gays & lesbians.